Get busy

It has been a long day, but I like it this way. This morning, schedule was decided in the last minute. Therefore, breakfast, water plant, feed Daniel, both shower, and then out of the house in 1 hour - Run-Run-Run. It was super hot with super bright sunshine. Daniel felt sleep before we hit the highway; he always stays quiet in car, maybe coz of air-conditioning. However, we had a word with grandma. Uncle is going to baby sitting his grandchildren; therefore; grandparents are going to stay with us for the end of April. No matter, grandma likes it or not, it's done. Grandpa can't reconize me, neither Daniel. But his eyes were on Daniel most of time, unless he felt sleep or tried to got into our conversation.

I don't understand grandma. She has never been school, married to grandpa over 60 years, has 3 sons and a daughter. Her entire life is nothing for herself. She doesn't believe education, but she is proud of my Dad's degree. She thinks it is waste of money to send girl to school, but she is proud of me been travel over 20 countries. Maybe that's the reason, she tried her best to make it up to 3rd uncle which I think it is her biggest mistake. I don't know, and I don't understand. She has 4 children, but she only thinks one of them - 3rd uncle. He is out of arrange, spoild big time and we don't talk to him, neither his family. Grandma makes it hapen and sees it keeping this way. Today, it is not only my family, 2nd uncle refuses to talk to 3rd uncle. We gonna find a solution to keep everybody happy. 3rd uncle gets all the favourites but rejects for obligation and responsibility. I remember Dad said to Mark, Chris and me: I can't choose who to be my Mom but I can complete my obligation and duty without looking at her. I don't understand what grandma choose a life like this??? However, after grandpa felt 4 times in a month, we do need to consider to get someone to look after him. But we have to pass grandma first, or make her agree by paying her pocket money. We do believe those money is for 3rd uncle again. I wonder when can 3rd uncle put grandparents' health as priority after all those things they have done for him?

By Taiwan's law, only son can inherit. My Dad has gived up on it and signed to gurantee. This family has no money for Dad when he needed it since he was very little. Becasue of Dad's study from primary school to university, 2nd uncle and aunt drop out of school to work in puddy. Therefore, Dad had to support their families. But things didn't work that well, entire family (5 couple with kids) were on Dad's shoulder for over 20 years. I was surprised how Dad can be so strong and say no word. Mom told me: There was no time to think or to complain. Untile 2 years ago, 2nd uncle invited grandparents move back to hometown. But grandma still looks all possibility for cash. Somehow, I feel sad for her. Also, I know one thing. I must have something more important than money when I get old.

Tonight, DC and I went to meet this girl. She is my master in handmade soap. Her soap looks delicious. I guess that's coz her warm heart. DC doesn't like KHH's traffic, especially when he is on the back of scooter. Also, we see some Geroge and Marry on bike in heavy traffic during peak hour, we will be worried for their safety. However, bad news is I still failed on this rose receipe. Do not worry, I will fix it when my master is back in town from her voluntary work in primary school in mountain. I think I overheat it, so oil comes out.